Morning all,
Just logged on and have had a text message from Lyn asking about Greg and Sonia's wedding.
I will pass on what I do know at this stage
Its an open invitation to all the family so welcome one and all
It will be an informal affair with a church wedding at Taylors Beach which is about 5 minutes from Gregs place.
There wont be a reception, tea and coffee afterwards and if you do come could you bring a plate of savories or cake or sandwiches to have with tea and coffee. That will compliment the Arnotts packet biscuits.
No presents as they have all the stuff that they need.
I know that a donation towards a honeymoon would be greatly appreciated
I dont know where they plan to go on a honeymoon, last I heard was talk about the Maldives
As for the time and address I wont know that until they get together probably this weekend Greg said to discuss it.
He has just about moved in with Sonia at her place over at Salamander and like me just drops in to see mum grab his surf board and dogs and then goes out for a surf.
He and sonia and her two children will live in the new house Greg has bought in Anna Bay and is close to the beach.
Mum will live out her days at Gregs house in Morna Point Rd and when he has moved all his furniture into the new house we will fill the Morna Point house with Mums gear that she has in storage.
At this stage Marcus has elected to stay with Nan and that is his choice.
He is nearly 16 and has his own mind. He has started an after school job at Woolies packing shelves to get a bit of pocket money.
That is all I can fill you in on in that department so far.
Now as far as the Surprise Party for mum's 80th I dont think that will be a happening event.
A few incidents have happened here and after a general discussion between Greg Sara and I we have decided not to have the party.
Mum would be livid and would not enjoy herself, and would dig her heels in once she cottoned on to what it was about.
I know that we would all have a great time but at this stage I really do have to say its a no go.
Mum is not happy about living at Gregs, she doesnt like it there and is not happy about being dependent on us to take her to the shops, bus, bank etc. She feels she still wants to go to Narromine where she can walk everywhere that she needs to go.
You have to understand that when mum gets set on something NOTHING, no reasoning or rationatlizing can alter her chain of thought.
She wont stay at Gregs if I continue to live there, ( I dont know where she will go) She has this set on Garry and doesnt want him there and feels that if I am there she will always have the worry that he will come over even when I am not there.
Garry has not been to Gregs in Months and is aware and understanding of mums thoughts and ideation.
So I am moving my stuff out, what I am not using will go back into storage and I will continue to live out of my car basically. I will now make Lemon Tree my base station at Garrys parents house. They are happy to have me there and understand the situation. Garrys Mum's mother is 100 in October and they are fully aware of the thought contents of the elderly. I dont want to rent a house because it means I will still only be there one to two days a week and it is pointless paying big rent for that.
Once the butchershop sells Garry and I plan to travel for 12 months to have time to ourselves and enjoy a bit of life. But at this stage with the economy the way it is I dont think the shop is going to sell in a hurry.
He works just about 7 days a week and has done so for the past 3 years.
Once we have finished our travel we will settle down somewhere
I am in the process of house hunting for an investment property and the one that I was set on was sold on the weekend. It wasnt meant to be that one. So it is back to hunting again.
I am at Toronto for the rest of the week, head to Lemon Tree on Wednesday night after a late shift. Marcus has to go to the dentist on Thursday afternoon to have 2 teeth out so his other teeth can be pulled into allignment with the braces.
He loves his AFL and they won against a Newcastle team on Friday night. I am hoping to get a change of shift so that I can take him to a game. I am rostered on all late shifts which is a pain.
I must go as I am at the Library and have only a certain amount of time on the computer which I have to book.
So please forgive me for the change of plans.
Lisa and Bernice thank you for your support and help I will phone when I can to ask for your understanding on the party matter.
I am in for a 2010 reunion and will do what I can to help so who ever is on the planning committee let me know.
Hope you all had a wonderful mothers day,
Sarie will fill you in on her firey end to the day.
Love meg